Today, it's the five year anniversary of my father's death. I was cuddling with my boyfriend and crying about how much I missed him. He replied with, "Sometimes, I think you just like to hear yourself talk." FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I called my boyfriend to have a shoulder to cry on because my grandpa died. As soon as I told him, he started crying and telling me how much he missed his grandmother, who died six years ago. I spent the majority of the phone call listening to him wail. FML
Today, my partner and I were cuddling on the couch, watching TV when she smiled and murmured, "You smell like my dad." FML
Today, I was crying because my cat died. My boyfriend cupped my face in his hands, looked me straight into the eyes and said, "I love seeing you cry." FML
Today, my mother and I were discussing how we couldn't believe it's been nearly a year since my dad died. Not paying attention, my husband absentmindedly added, "Time flies when you're having fun." FML
Today, I saw my dad for the first time in almost five years, at his funeral. FML
Today, I got back home from work and casually asked my dad, "What's up?" He casually replied, "Wishing I'd had a son instead." and stared glassy-eyed at me until I left the room. FML
Today, I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone. After a short pause I hear him say "I love you." Smiling I say, "I love you too." Then he says, "I was talking to my dog." FML
Today, my boyfriend laid his head on my bare chest and said, "You're like my mother." FML
Today, I was texting a friend of mine. She mentioned it was her dad's birthday. I typed, "Tell him 'Happy Birthday' from me!" and as I pressed send, I remembered her dad was dead. FML
Today, my boyfriend brought up the time he said he'd love me until the day he died. He continued by saying, "So, let's just pretend I died today." FML
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jessxoxo28 5
wat an asshole!!!!!! dump him!
mfpeanuthead 0
What a douche.
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Comments (355)
ell1609 0
i think 21 is her boyfriend. wanker.
redmusketeer 1
okay why does everyone say that he's a bad boyfriend i mean first does the op do this every year i mean one year i can understand two years sure go ahead cry but 5 years! it's time to move on your boyfriend was probably sick of the same blubbering year after year after year
joeydboy123 0
#99, you are probably gay so your input doesn't count
monicamischief 0
while that was a bit insensitive, it HAS been five years. so if you are whining about it every day or really often, it would be really annoying from his point of view. i don't think she should dump him over that :/ i don't whine about deaths that happened five years ago.
aJ09 0
what a ******* fag, you need to dump him. why would you wanna stay with someone like that, im sorry if you do stay with him you deserve to get treated like that..alot of other guys would treat you SO much better. Anyways good luck and im sorry about your father, stay strong =)
lyndis_fml 0
I'm with 21 on this one.
aJ09 0
#105, why dont you try losing ur father and REMEMBERING 5 years when you lost him and crying about it. im sure she doesnt cry everyday, what, she isnt allowed to cry on the 5 year ani for a ******* day? go try losing a parent and lets see how you do fuckface. i lost my mom 8 years ago and i still cry on the ani. were not supposed to be saddened? like i said im sure she doesnt cry all the time, what is she supposed to be a bitch and not remember her father at all? ******* stupid ass ppl like you piss me off..
literalmanchild 0
#100 people being dicks need to get called out on it. he a buster going around telling people he hopes they die, or their family members. who does that? i'll tell you who, a bitch. a bitch does that.
Nica_21 0
Just because you still need to talk about your dad sometimes does NOT mean you aren't moving on. Dump his ass. Now.
xThatRandomGirlx 0
Anyone clicking YDI and telling her to get over it, shut up, seriously. Yes it has been five years, but she's still allowed moments when she can be sad and cry about it. This is good because it shows that she'll always miss him and think about him. Besides, when you lose someone that close to you, no matter how much time passes, you never really get over it. You just learn to deal with the sadness after a while. OP- I'm so sorry you had to lose your father. What your boyfriend said was insensitive. Find people who truly care about you and talk to them if you're upset.