By bootycall:( - 15/02/2017 13:00 - United States - Oxnard

Today, I went on what I thought was my fifth date with a guy. We finally got intimate and it was amazing. As soon as it was over, he said : "Sorry babe, I should get going. I have a date tomorrow and I'd hate to be tired for it." FML
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If you two haven't had a conversation about whether this was a relationship, and an exclusive one at that, he probably thinks it's open. And, technically, if you two haven't discussed being exclusive, he isn't really doing anything wrong... as much as it would still suck for you.

Sounds like he may have assumed it was a "friends with benefits" situation. That, or he just assumes it's an open relationship. Either way, he's being an ass and isn't worth being upset over.

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Sounds like he may have assumed it was a "friends with benefits" situation. That, or he just assumes it's an open relationship. Either way, he's being an ass and isn't worth being upset over.

Damn, you might want to run as fast as you can from the bullshit!

If you two haven't had a conversation about whether this was a relationship, and an exclusive one at that, he probably thinks it's open. And, technically, if you two haven't discussed being exclusive, he isn't really doing anything wrong... as much as it would still suck for you.

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Multiple first dates..? That doesn't make sense.

You could have multiple dates in the same week, i saw that on steve harvey and everyone agreed lol ?

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How does him going on dates with other people signal that he thinks op is the one?

I can see where he's coming from.. I'm dating more than one person to find the correct one. So you might want to talk to him and see where y'all stand as a relationship as it sounds like he might think it's open.

Why go on dates with several people? Why not become friends and if anything, you will have a great friend.

Where's the issue? 5 dates is hardly exclusive material. You're number 1 problem is you didn't talk to him about it. 5 dates doesn't equal a relationship. Sex doesn't equal a relationship either. If you don't wana date someone who dates other people you need to be upfront about it. No title or talk no issue.

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You were just the rehearsal.

Some people go on dates with multiple people before choosing one. I personally find this wrong.

I think it's fine as long as you're not being intimate with each one

It's fine as long as everyone is on the same page. That's all the clarification you need

Oh come on. Even Dan Savage would call her out on making assumptions and not having a talk about exclusivity.

That asshole!