By Anonymous - 01/07/2009 19:18 - United States
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Well i think you need to chillax. he was just getting to know you and this is why you have such a successful relationship. because he took the time and effort to get to know the real you. This is an excellent thing and i have no idea why you consider this an fml. On south georgia island, its mandatory for you to research the person before perusing a relationship. well know you know PS (post script) this is an episode of seinfeld
ok, so im kinda starting to think you have a diagnosable mental disease... how the FUCK is stalking someone for 3 years "getting to know the real you" or watever???? getting to know someone is like "hey lets hang out in a group sometime" or "wanna grab a coffee?" NOTTTTTTTT "hey im gonna take candid pictures of you for three years and then somehow find a way to actually meet you and get you to date me" like, i honestly think you need to get some help. there is nooooooo way that being a stalker, because yes, thats wat this guy is, constitutes "getting to know" someone. you are seriously disturbed.
Same here... Just because you're too slow to get the coveted first post doesn't mean you have to yell at others. Besides, all of us know the main reason most people say "FIRST" is to see how many people are baited into replying. I'm one of the baited people ;p Anyhow... technically I see this as a pro. I mean, obviously this person likes you, and you like him in return if you agreed to be his GF. What's the worst he's going to do? Have sex with you? Seeing how forny-happy you christians are, this obviously isn't an issue, so stop complaining.
umm...it's time for you to run away...seriously creepy. I've delt with too many stalkers before, get out NOW!!! It's not cute and it's not funny and there are no excuses. I may sound like a cut throat bitch but I'm tired of guys trying to hide their crazy with I love you's or sweet nothings, obsession is not love and it's not something that gets better..That's my opinion any way but obviously if you were creeped out enough to FML it there is something to it...stick with your guyt feeling
Does stalking a person for three years really constitute as "just getting to know them"? I think that's overkill... as in, " here's a dead horse, I'm going to punch it 'till it walks away" style. Seriously, OP, I'd be askin' a few questions if I were you. Run awaaaaaaay.
That's interesting, actually. The OP MUST have taken some sort of action before posting this on FML. I bet she took his phone, deleted her number, then took all her photos, kicked the stalker bf in the balls and ran. Or if she's a kick-ass chick, she just beat the shit outta him.
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I wouldn't be surprized if the lady is from a small town, and the dude just happened to see her once in a while and take her pics since he had a camera with him. Maybe he was too shy to come up to her and introduce himself and this page in his album, which he didn't even try to hide maybe was his way to show her how crazy he was about her...Big deal...
If you're still happy with him, just bring it up. He doesn't need to stalk you if he's with you, and I'm sure he'll be more faithful than any of the guys you'll ever meet.
I don't know about you guys, but my e-peen hardly fits in my e-pants. Heh, I didn't realize so many sarcastic douchebags came here just to put down others and laugh at them. Good luck to you dear sirs - in your quest to find any decent meaning in your life, and I hope hitting rock bottom doesn't hurt your misplaced pride too much, because it may take some time before you can dust yourself off. After everything, however, you'll see life in a new light, and you may actually do something nice for once. =D
it's actually not funny/sweet/slightly creepy or wtvr these ppl are saying. if it was for like a month, or even a couple, then it could be considered a big crush, and you could laugh it off. but this guy has STALKED you for 3 years. full-on, pictures, sneaking/following stalking. he could be dangerous. approach carefully. definitely don't dismiss it.
#209 Haha its not even cute/sweet/funny if he only stalked her and took pics of her for a couple of months. I've gone out with a 2 girls that I found out were stalker-ish too later on in the relationship, and when the relationship didnt work out and I broke up with them, they went all psycho-bitch. OP: You should probly distance yourself from him because hes most likely crazy. And hopefully he wont go psycho because you dumped him and try to kill you and then go all cannibal on your ass or something. :D