Today, I told my husband that while he was away I had had a miscarriage. His response? "If you can't take care of our baby while it is still inside you, how can I trust you to take care of it when it comes out?" FML
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Today, I realised how little my husband trusts me after I told him I was pregnant and the first words out of his mouth were, “Is it mine?” FML
Today, I had my second miscarriage. My husband responded by throwing a bitch fit because I "totally blindsided him with this miscarriage shit” knowing he wanted kids, and if he'd known he wouldn’t have married me in the first place. He threw his wedding band in the trash and stormed off. FML
Today, I had to break the news to my husband that I had miscarried our first child, to which he replied, "Thank God!" and told me he wanted a divorce. FML
Today, I had a miscarriage. My partner doesn't understand why I'm upset, saying, "It wasn't even a real baby yet." FML
Today, my husband rushed me to the hospital, and we were told that I'd had a miscarriage. Neither of us knew I was pregnant. FML
Today, I admitted to my fiance that I'm glad I had a miscarriage. He kicked me out and called off our wedding. FML
Today, I had to take an emergency contraceptive. I was talking to my boyfriend about it, and I told him that my stomach really hurt. His response? "Aw. That's just the baby dying." FML
Today, my husband threw an epic temper tantrum because I wouldn’t have sex with him. I recently suffered from a miscarriage and the thought of anything going on down there makes me uncomfortable. He eventually calmed down and said, "Fine, just don’t be surprised if I end up cheating." FML
Today, I spent four hours at the ER because I had a miscarriage. The father of the baby was being sweet and supportive while I was there and checked in on me after I got home. Six hours after we found out we lost our baby, he asked for a threesome. He still doesn’t understand what’s wrong. FML
Today, my boyfriend tried to tell me that he was worried our child might not be mine because he was cheating on me when I got pregnant. FML
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Bran_Dizzle_ 0
That's effed up I mean, REALLY effed up Damn.
sweatnut 0
WTF. I hope this isn't true. if it is then you need to leave him. That is one of the cruelest, hurtful insensitive things Ive heard in a long time. My wife and I lost our first child 4 years ago to a miscarriage and I still get upset by it, thankfully we have 2 beautiful children now. leave that loser.
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Comments (173)
PsychoGorgeous 0
This is a TRUE FML. I'm so sorry for your loss, and the stress of your jerk husband on top of that. Please try to keep your head up.
omghehehe 0
:( Sorry... I don't condone violence, but he needs to get his ass kicked! What he said to you, is so horrible, it's dumbfounding. If it was a joke, he's still a prick for it. You don't joke about sh*t like that.
B31 0
I'm sorry but u married a dumbass
Andrewl_FML 0
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You should be happy you miscarriaged. Now you don't have to bring a child into the world who is fathered by such a piece of shit.
KierRadcliffe 8
How the f*ck can you say she should be glad about a miscarriage.??!! Your a douche.
Connkidd 0
he's a ****** idiot
gutless86 0
i am so sorry for your loss, and i pray you have a succesful pregnancy soon. as for your husband...i agree with what Amc 5212, but first get pregnant, THEN have him sleep on the couche for the rest of the pregnancy.
Reality_bites 14
Three words came to mind when I was reading this. He's an arsehole. Assuming that you were happy to hear that you were pregnant and that you were taking care of yourself to achieve the best possible outcome (ie healthy baby born), now not only do you have to grieve the loss but he's making it out to be your fault as well. Arsehole. Miscarriage is more common than people realise and even if the mother does everything right within the first trimester, there is no guarantee that the pregnancy will be successful. That's why you should never announce until 12 weeks have passed.
movies12 0
You know what OP, your husband is a jerk. I hope u honeslty made/make him suffer, for what he said to u.
Banez 0
That is really screwed up. Not even funny
executivemom 0
I know how difficult miscarriages can be. Just try to remember that it usually happens because there is something wrong with the fetus and your body realizes it. in this case it was probably rejecting your jerkoff of a husbands genes. Your better off not raising a child with this man.