By Anonymous - 09/08/2017 13:00

Today, I told my boyfriend I wanted him to be a little more masculine and dominant in the bedroom. He broke up with me because I'm not "feminist enough". FML
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Man it is a messed up world we live in, words don't mean what they mean. Doesn't feminism mean women can live the way they choose to live? Thus a woman choosing to be dominated is feminist. But it's all backwards and has been turned into a women vs. men conflict that just leaves everybody unsatisfied

It's probably a good thing he broke up with you. He doesn't sound man enough for you.

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And now you know why leashes are often used to dominate. Gotta keep em from running

Man it is a messed up world we live in, words don't mean what they mean. Doesn't feminism mean women can live the way they choose to live? Thus a woman choosing to be dominated is feminist. But it's all backwards and has been turned into a women vs. men conflict that just leaves everybody unsatisfied

I agree that he shouldn't have broken up with her, but using your logic, shouldn't masculine mean that he should live the way he wants to and not engage in sexual activities like that?

I see what you're getting at but I was referring to feminism as the movement to empower women, besides that the definition of masculine: mas·cu·line adjective having qualities or appearance traditionally associated with men, especially strength and aggressiveness.

I believe the guy MEANT to say "feninine" but was too ignorant to know that from "feminist". Perhaps she needs someone more intelligent...

It's probably a good thing he broke up with you. He doesn't sound man enough for you.

Feminist, dominant, who the hell cares!!! Just put it in the damn hole!!

probably doesn't matter which

He means “feminine.” You can’t fix stupid, and you can’t fix effeminate. You can lower your standards and settle for this jerk, or repeal and replace him.

damn, people these days break up over little things, if he really loved you or cared about you he would never break up with you over such a silly reason, youre better off with out him OP, you deserve better than that.

I wonder if he meant to say "feminine", as in you weren't acting girly enough in his eyes, or if he truly meant you weren't enough of a feminist, which, in that case, I habe no idea what he would mean by that.

thehaystackerine 20

liberalism at it's finest.

You simply could've asked him to be more dominant in bed without including the word "masculine." It may have made him feel like he wasn't "man enough" for you. How would you have felt if he asked you to be more feminine in bed?

I'm getting the feeling the complaint was poorly worded too. You can request dominance without implying he's a pussy.

Your boyfriend may like men