By doemetoch - Belgium - Brussels
Today, I really needed to be cheered up a bit after having had a horrible, depressing weekend. Luckily the guy I've been dating for some time, and who I really like, invited me over for dinner. Apparently, he wanted to see me so he could tell me he thinks we should stop seeing each other. FML
doemetoch tells us more :
OP here (yeah, I decided to make an account.) You're all right about him being very polite and all that, he was super sweet and mature about it and I could see he felt genuinely bad. But you know... somehow it's easier if a guy breaks up in a stupid way, at least then you're like "ugh, whatever, I deserve better than this anyway!" Or is that just me?
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  iBanana  |  17

What happens next?

A family of rhinos taking OP in as one of their own?

Maybe OP befriends the only talking shark on the planet...?

The world may never know.

  pureportedpear  |  27

Well, I never said that I had anything against him, it is just that if he decided that he did not like you enough to continue seeing you any more, then there is no stopping him from reaching that desicion once again, and make OP's shattered heart, go to ever more and smaller pieces. Maybe also damaging future relationships that OP might have becouse of trust issues from previous relationships.

  OhDamnItsNik  |  4

saying ice cream is a good idea is what makes the US fat?? ok OP you just got dumped, go bench press a little bit, do a couple laps around the block and don't forget about leg day..

By  every1luvsboners  |  11

Get over it and move on. Go get yourself 24 ass-fire flavor chicken wings, a bottle of Scotch to drown your sorrows, then give a rim-job to the first guy you see. You'll be over him tomorrow, good luck.

By  vlalam  |  24

That's terrible, sorry OP. Atleast u r done with all the crappy ppl in ur life and spring is around the corner... Hopefully there will be only good going forward for you!!! But he did try to be polite and did it in person and in a very nice way and tried not to offend u.. So the dinner and his attitude should count for something.. May be he isn't ur bf anymore but atleast u may have a good friend on good terms :)

  Alihb  |  16

Crapy people? Grow up. Breaking up with someone doesn't make him a crappy person. It's sounds to me that he was rather polite about the whole thing.

By  Dumbledora  |  9

Everything that can possibly go wrong, will. But now the only way left to go is up! And I agree with the others, at least he ended things properly and just didn't stop talking to you or something rude like that.

By  tbro47  |  23

Could be worse most guys don't have the balls to break up face to face. The fact that he did means that he cared enough about you to make it more personal