Today, I logged on Facebook and saw my friend who'd been engaged, then broke the engagement, then got back together announce their new wedding date: three days before my wedding. She also sent me a message asking if I'd move my date. We've been planning our wedding for two years. She got engaged six months ago. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Same thing different taste
Bad timing
Today, my best friend's parents posted her wedding date on Facebook. My best friend got engaged a few months after I did. The only wedding plan I have come up with so far is a Fall 2022 wedding. My best friend is also planning a Fall 2022 wedding. FML
Today, my husband who asked for a divorce four days ago announced his engagement on Facebook. His new woman's profile picture is my engagement ring. FML
Today, I got engaged to my boyfriend of three years. I made the announcement on my status on facebook so people would congratulate me. The only response I got about my engagement was from a girl I knew saying; "Umm, he didn't tell you he was cheating on you for three years with me?" FML
Shelve your plans
Today, I discovered that my fiancé had responded to an online missed connection posting. He has been emailing, exchanging pictures and making plans to go out with this girl. We are supposed to be married in the fall and just put down the non-refundable deposit on our reception site. FML
Today, after thirteen years of engagement, my fiancé and I split. As is, with the day, we changed our Facebook relationships to make it official. I logged back on tonight to find his mother, the woman I've spent the last year looking after and having a good time, "liking" the break up. FML
Copycat
Today, I found out that my fiancé's sister, who only got engaged a couple of months ago, is getting married before us. I wouldn't have a problem with this if she wasn't planning her wedding to be exactly like ours will be. FML
Today, my ex fiancée, who left me six months ago, asked if I'd mind if she used the wedding dress I bought her for our wedding. She's just gotten engaged again. FML
Today, my fiancée broke up with me over text message while I was away for work. She later posted photos of her and her new boyfriend on Facebook, while still wearing my engagement ring. FML
Traditions suck
Today, I found out the girl who ghosted me a month ago is engaged. Not only is she engaged, but she is in an arranged marriage. And not only is she going to be married, but she still has feelings for me. FML
Really close
Today, my sister made her engagement official on Facebook. When I shared the post to spread the word, people didn't read her boyfriend's name, and I started getting questions on why my sister and I were getting married. FML
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Tripartita 45
You know, if you smack her around now, there'd be time for the bruising to set in, so she could be your something blue! Two birds, one stone!
allimarcy 23
How incredibly selfish of her
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Comments (52)
domolovesyoshi 33
I'm sorry OP she's a bitch and you need to put her in her place
brezzyanna 17
The same thing happened to my moms best friend. She planned her wedding for 2 years, and her ex-husband decided 6 months before the date to have his wedding a week after my moms friend. It really sucked for their daughter because she was the maid of honour for both wedding and had to help plan 2 weddings at once.
GhostFox 34
If this sort of thing happens with any frequency in regard to this "friend", toward you or any mutual friends, you may want to consider either distancing or even ending the relationship with her. As it stands, it sounds like she scheduled the wedding for that date so that mutual guests would opt to go to just one, and possibly even **** with OP's wedding by causing people to have to scramble to get a second outfit for the wedding or at least get the other one laundered. One event like this is a pretty good indication that maybe you should evaluate whether it's healthy to have someone like her in your life. Ultimately OP's call, especially since there may be details that didn't fit in the post that are pertinent to the situation. But asking someone to move their wedding when they scheduled there's before yours, is a dick move from anyone, no excuses.
sassiwolf7 3
Be careful my friend had a wedding a few years back. One bridesmaid was already married but not only fought with some of the other bridesmaids (there was 8) but she started a fight at the wedding. The hotel staff made her and her husband leave then they got mad at the bride and groom. They stopped talking to her that night and cancelled the check they gave for a gift.... my friend regrets including her and having such a big wedding.
donb23 23
Wow it sucks to have friends like that.
TheyCallMeDamien 18
Tell her all the stuff is locked in and since she's hasn't started planning it would be easier for her to adjust her date. But make sure you send out your invites first.
Leeono 26
I think you should change the date.... to the date before hers.....
CallieSunshine 5
If you've been planning for that long, it's likely your wedding vendors and stuff are already booked. If she can't understand that, it's her job to move her wedding. If you've already sent out save the dates and made your wedding day known, people will just have to figure it out if they want to attend both. Your wedding will probably be nicer than hers if she's throwing it together in a short period of time, so there's no competition there.
JulieLucero 18
Say yeah, but move it on her wedding date!
DanielleinDC 34
What a wench. Chances are she'll change the date again.