By Just_Me_88 - 18/08/2012 05:09 - United States - Salem

Today, I found out that my new husband is expecting two children: ours, due in January, and our 16-year-old neighbor's, due in March. FML
I agree, your life sucks 66 358
You deserved it 3 581

Just_Me_88 tells us more.

Well, I am OP, and I am indeed 23...I met my husband when I was 18....and his ex was 17. She "lied" to him about her age. I am amazed I have bought it for so long. Yup, he is certainly a soon-to-be ex. Right after he loses his jewels. (kidding...maybe, lol) My soon-to-be-ex just turned 36.

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lenamartinovic 13

How old is your husband? 0_o You should dump him. FYL, OP

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mollymayan 3

EW. I hope you aren't staying with him.. Pretty sure that isn't a story you'll want to explain to your child when they're old enough to know o_O

Dump him!!!! Dump him now!!!! Give your kid up for adoption too!! Not worth it!!!

rebeccac3 5

Get that lawyer now OP. And get everything, and e should go to jail. Thank Goodness he won't be around your child.

Well, I am OP, and I am indeed 23...I met my husband when I was 18....and his ex was 17. She "lied" to him about her age. I am amazed I have bought it for so long. Yup, he is certainly a soon-to-be ex. Right after he loses his jewels. (kidding...maybe, lol) My soon-to-be-ex just turned 36.

#345, Just_Me_88, As I said in #344, it's brave and generous of you to tell your story. Thank you. Your FML and post may save other families from the pain you've endured. Sexual predators like your soon-ex don't stop, unless they are stopped. Your lawyer can help you bring him to justice, if the girl's parents haven't. Best of luck.

And...you know, I kinda maybe DO deserve it...I was divorcing him earlier this year, got dumped, believed my ex's crap about loving me and changing for real this time (ha!) and got pregnant. Soooo...yeah. This dud likes teens who are abused (every one of his ex's has a history of childhood sex abuse) and when they get strong, he hits. When that doesn't work, he goes out apparently. *shrugs* I am finally mature enough to say enough is enough and me and our soon to be three children will not be bothering him any more. I am loving all the comments. :D You all are great. Exactly why I love FML.

#351, Deserve it? Hell, no! Please read what you just wrote about this guy's history. He's 36, slick, and an experienced criminal. You are 23 and may have the history of his other victims. You see his pattern. So you beat yourself up, why? Stay strong! (OPs who comment are gems!)

neonglostix 28

He likes girls who have been sexually abused... Unfortunately that gives you a lot of information about your neighbor. Is she just struggling or is she a snarky bitch? Because if she's struggling to get solid footing in life, maybe you two could bond? Idk if that's weird, but, certainly your kids will eventually know each other as half siblings. Maybe the best approach is a united front against him? I certainly wouldn't want to give him the chance to bring more half siblings into the picture.

And now theres more information to clarify why he needs to be put away. Thanks for the additional info, it's disappointing we can't look into the back story without having to wait for someone to come by and say something. Perhaps having an option "read more" bit would reduce confusion on the site.

neonglostix 28

Or even an alert section were you could see if someone replied to your post.

351- Op, I totally agree with Outoftown/353, there is no way you deserved this. I'm also thinking you matched his preferred victim profile and used you like all the other girls. This is Not your fault. :p Good for you for getting rid of him, that can't be easy to go through. Stay strong, Op. *Hugs!*

OP - consider that while you may be able to put him in prison due to stat rape charges, you will need child support and that's thin while in the joint. A kid can be expensive. Good luck to you.

Gwyddone 29

You didn't deserved it! Stay strong, OP, you seem to be a decent person!

He literally needs to die. What he did was disgusting to you AND her. I hope you tell her parents so he can be reported and get his ass sent to prison.

O god I thought it said daughter instead of neighbor at first o.O

SwtCherryPie 26

I smell a statutory rape charge.

Nice, playmates. At least they will be able to play together

tarasdp 6

I believe it's time to kick someone's cheatin ass to the curb!

I think that's called statutory in most places...and I'm so so sorry

*spits drink* I really hope your husband isn't much more than 20 because it would be super creepy!