By Anonymous - 19/09/2010 14:12 - United States

Today, I found out that my husband keeps in contact with the woman he was infatuated with in high school. He texts her more than he texts me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 456
You deserved it 4 212

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Y_U_19029 0

To be fair he probably sees you everyday, where he does see her alot

underyourbreath 8

I would say trust him, but that's just too suspicious. I say get his texts from your phone company, if it's nothing than it's nothing & you can be happy knowing he loves you. If there are some hints then you can think about how you feel with a man who only commits part of his heart to you.

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Brannie 4

I bet you he calls you more than he calls her though.. unless you guys are like text freaks, and that's the way you communicate with each other. lol

Pay more attention to his needs and he won't wander.... Just saying......

imright24 0

It was a high school crush so it probably doesn't mean anything. And you live with the guy. Of course you don't text often if you see him every day at home.

juggalet 0

that shit sucks, Im kinda going threw the same thing :(

transcedental 18

Oh this sounds so sad :( I am starting to wonder can a man (or a woman) only love one person to the rest of their lives. I really believe, that it's possible, but I guess with the aging people change. But after all it depends on the person. If you were the one, and he is the one, he shouldn't pay more attention to his school love. I wish you best of luck

I was in the same situation 5 years ago but it was emails, not texts. Gave him benefit of the doubt, thought maybe it was just friends. Found out a year later the emails were inappropriate. He begged me not to file divorce. A year after that, found out they were STILL exchanging inappropriate emails. Divorced him. A year later he emailed me to say what a fool he was. I never replied. He has a girlfriend. And the cycle continues....

teddygraham1 1

same here. it was texts and messaging. he was always defensive when I asked about it. and I found out he completely lied to me. not just about one woman, but multiple. I had a child with this man so it's a little more complicated, but had I known the truth from the very first time I questioned and asked anything.... i wouldn't be stuck where I am today.