By Kathleen Michelle Cooper - 28/08/2018 20:30
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It really sucks that your husband cheated on you. That's awful. But if you didn't want a kid you should be on birth control and using condoms. If you are them your life sucks. If not you do deserve the pregnancy, not the cheating.
What a difficult and heartbreaking situation, OP. None of us can advise you on whether or not continuing the pregnancy is the right choice, but either way, I hope you and your 10-month-old son have a good support network outside of your husband. You didn’t deserve any of this.
People starting their comments with "you're supposed" should keep their thoughts for themselves, they bring no solution to the situation. It is not a general rule that you must wait 18 months before a new pregnancy. Your body can be ready sooner. Anyway OP: I hope your partner will understand his priorities. As for such few months between two children can be very tiring the first years (it is also a good way to get done with it at once) but it can also created a wonderful bond between the siblings. All the best.