I still don't understand how you know they are the same flowers. You saw the note from this other woman, which like many have said, could be the florist. Even if it isn't, you only knew about the flowers from seeing this note. He sends you flowers, after you have the baby. Did you recognize those flowers then as some that he already possessed? It sounds as though you had gotten flowers from him directly or the florist sent them. You didn't question it at that time. Now you find a note from a girl stating that she hopes he liked his flowers. Now you assume they are the same flowers?! Unless i am missing something, the note is either from the florist, or the "other woman". If it is the latter, then you probably never even seen the flowers she bought him, or at the very least you are guessing that they could be the same. If you knew they were flowers that were sent to him, when you received them, you would have been pissed then. You got mad after finding this note, so i think you are making assumptions.

At least he is financially responsible...Maybe he'll have an easy time paying child support.

she could be the florist? calm down

Mabe he was scared he wouldn't get flowers you would like so he asked another girl to pick out flowers you would like. My husband takes his sister, or a good female friend shopping sometimes, so they can help him pick out something I would like.

You know the economy these days..... maybe he just wanted to save some money.

Um the first thing that would come to my mind isn't cheating... I would assume the note was from the person who made the bouquet? Do girls usually give guys flowers? If this is what the OP's mind jumps to then she obviously has issues anyway.

When you assume things it makes an ass out of you and me. Stop jumping to conclusions and give him the benefit of the doubt. It's not like the note said thanks for an amazingly hot night of rolling in the hey.

maybe he bought them of her?

what a cheap, cheating, jew.

maybe she gave him flowers because you guys had a baby. he's just bringing them to the hospital.