You are planning everything to a T.

That sucks....I am so sorry OP

It astounds me how many ppl place all blame and responsibility on the "other woman"...he is the one in a committed relationship, he is the ultimateeeeee scumbag!!! The wedding planner should be sued or somethin because that is so unethical and she should at leastttt get the worst reviews about her "business" as possible...other than that the problem isn't the woman he cheated with, it's HIMM!!! If it wasn't with the wedding planner, it would have been with someone else. Doesn't matter whooooo it was when it comes to whose at fault, it's solely on him!!! He has a choice to say no even if she was the one to pursue him regardless she did not force him to have sex with her, so yes, it was his decision!!!! Stop placing all the blame on the woman when what she did was wrong and unethical ESP at a business standpoint but he issss the one who is supposed to be faithful, regardless of who he shouldn't be sleeping with. Whether it could have been a sister, friend, random or whatever, the responsibility is up to him!!!! That's who she should be mad at most. The other person depending on who it is can make it hurt worse (ex. With sister, friend, etc) but alllll the blame should be put on him!! In this case, the wedding planner needs to be crucified when it comes to her business because that is so unethical it's absurd

"Soon to be" Should be! "Not so soon to be"

Im so sorry but at least you realized hes a dirtbag before you married him. saves a lot of money on a divorce.

He sounds pretty dedicated to making sure she does a good job with your wedding.