By apparently inexperienced - 11/09/2012 16:54 - United States - Brockton
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He should be thankful he even got something. I know I would be.
People really need to stop wanting **** stars in a relationship! Why would someone want their other half to nearly scream the house down from touching their arm? Porn is over exaggerated! Also, no one else realised that the duck face is incredibly popular in ****? Just me?
Porn is for the voyeur in all of us. Everyone who watches **** likes it for one reason: watching two (or more) people go at it like animals, because they wish they were having the same kind of experiences. Who cares that it's fake, wrestling is fake as hell and people still watch that retarded garbage.
81, when did it become selfish for him to want to be satisfied sexually too? I bet you're the kind of ball-buster that expects your man to perform for you, whether he gets anything out of it or not. Isn't that selfish of her to not at least take his satisfaction into consideration. Yeah, he worded it poorly, but that doesn't mean he doesn't have a valid point.
I'm not stating that at all. Porn is not the solution to intimacy. Exploring each others likes and dislikes together is more healthy in my opinion. I know I would be offended to have my boyfriend compare me to ****. I'm not alone in that either. I understand needs fully. Everyone has them. That said, I would never approach finding a solution like that.
Though there is a difference the two are actually closely linked. While sex can simply just be sex it is typically much more satisfying when paired with a sense of intimacy and affection. Yes sex can be rough, or calm, or whatever but mental/spiritual intimacy can really make all the difference.
At least he's telling you the truth, and isn't going out there and cheating, tell him to tell you more of what he wants.
I really don't think **** is unhealthy for a relationship I think men should have the freedom to watch **** as well as men. They can also watch together to get idea's. Some men want to do most of the work and sometimes some women want to do more work during sex. You just have to talk about it. Maybe he just wants OP to be more physically involved.
I think guys watch too much **** and get unrealistic expectations.