Classy guy.

Fiancé WITH kids for 7 yrs should've been the red flag.

Why would that be a red flag? You don't have to get married to have kids.

Not exactly. But after 4 kids and still nothing? Not really a good sign

Give up on him.

Great! He's automatically out of your life. You are now free to forget about him. You don't need him.

I feel like you're forgetting the kids.

What a complete asshole. There's no hope for cowards like him

It's people like him that should not be allowed to reproduce in the first place, out of your life and out of your mind I'm so sorry to hear about that OP, I hope your kids are doing okay as well as you

hey you can make him pay for being a douche bag. its called child support :)

You're far better off without him and your kids don't need to grow up seeing their mother being disrespected

4 kids in 7 seven and u're not married?? What were you expecting??

Not everyone believes marriage is the ultimate commitment. For some, children alone are seen as more binding than a marriage contract. If the guy is willing to break the hearts of his kids, then something tells me he wasn't going to take marriage vows very seriously either.

#21 if they didn't believe in marriage, why get engaged?

That's right, 8, I forgot, married people never cheat or leave their children…

I think #8 means that it's really fishy that he's willing to have 4 kids with the OP but won't seal the deal on marriage after 7 years of engagement. Unless there were major things that prevented the marriage from happening, it's odd that he didn't want legal ties with her for so long (outside of the kids) since he got engaged to OP. It's one thing to never want to be married and have kids anyways, but another to wait for your partner to keep their promise after 7 years.

at least you weren't married, sucks for the kids though.

Take this as a sign that he's a two timer and you deserve better. Hope you get better OP.