By stop_crying - 11/05/2016 18:55 - United States

Today, a twelve year-old girl was better at calming down my six month-old baby on the bus than me. FML
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Same thing different taste

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In my experience it seems like its easier for kids to calm down infants than it is for adults. IDK, maybe kids know something we don't.

pom3440 22

of course she can.... she's not mom!

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Bub was probably aware that you were getting stressed from his distress, they can sense these things so a distraction like a friendly stranger took his mind off things. It happens.

blackrose1996 11

Kids know kids better then us adults with my little cousins the older one translates her 1 and a half year old brother all the time and he does talk much

Very true. As a child I had to learn to pronounce over half of the alphabet, so before that it was nearly impossible for people to understand me. My brother, however, was able to understand what I wanted and usually had to translate. My mother usually had to get him whenever she couldn't understand me.

It's often the face of a stranger that does the trick. The baby's curiosity often wins from their urge to cry or make a fuss. My grandfather always makes funny faces and noises to crying babies, and they always stop crying

Yup. I do it all the time and the babies stop crying right away because they dont know me so they are curious as to who is that new face and voice.

hoosiergirl94 31

Babies know what babies want

trust me these kind of people you meet are great, appreciate them don't feel threatened by them, they will buy you a few points on your blood pressure. it's a win win really, I as a parent understand the frustration you can go through at first but then you really start to enjoy it when other people can distract your kids.

She might have a younger sibling which gave her more experience with it. Try to remember what she did and use it the next time

saffy66 34

A tense mother is a paradox - the one who most wants to calm the child, yet the one least likely to be able to do so. Babies pick up on our tension, whereas a stranger won't be so anxious. It's no reflection on you, though it can feel like it at the time. I'm speaking from experience here.

its the stranger effect nothing to do with your parenting skills

Don't beat yourself up OP, usually kids respond better to kids :)

Mr_Mole 24

It's no big deal. Babies pick up that you're stressed so a 12 year old who's relaxed and not had 6 months of crying to put up with will relax the baby easily.