The magic of love

By robot lady - 23/09/2020 23:01

Today, I learned just how “old fashioned” my girlfriend is when we talked about marriage. She said it should be approached as a logically as possible and that I make an ideal partner, based on my ability to provide. And while she sees sex as uninteresting, it is a wifely duty she’s willing to do. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 397
You deserved it 199

Same thing different taste

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She literally told you you’re main appeal was your a bank account, and she doesn’t even enjoy having sex with you. Now is the time to make wise decisions.

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Mathalamus 24

Her method isn’t wrong. Some people go by feelings, some goes by logic, and some just go with what’s best. Frankly, I would have taken her.

It sounds like she's asexual. Ace people are still able to provide emotional love and attachments. You need to have an open discussion with your wife about both of your sexual needs.

She's not old fashioned she just doesn't find sex with you as something to look forward to. I have no idea why she's still your girlfriend. ydi

"Willing to do" is definitely a red flag. Because I can guarantee that, especially if you're in a culture where both divorce and adultery are frowned upon...once you're locked in, there's no reason (in her mind) for her to continue to fulfill her "wifely duties".

randybryant799 20

Surely you've noticed she found sex uninteresting. Why would you want to marry her?