Scared

By Anonymous - 29/01/2022 14:01

Today, I asked my boyfriend why he never seems to have his own opinion, always agrees with me, and does whatever I want. That’s when he admitted he’s scared of me and is terrified of saying or doing anything I won’t like. I have no idea what I did to scare him this badly. FML
I agree, your life sucks 716
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Probably something he learned from previous relationships. My last girlfriend nothing could be said without her turning it into an argument. Suspect drama was her love language. Thankfully current gf communicates like we're partners on the same team and it's amazing.

Does he know any of your ex boyfriends? They may have told him things to mess with him.

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Does he know any of your ex boyfriends? They may have told him things to mess with him.

He's a keeper! You're going to wear the pants in this relationship. Happy wife, happy life!

Maybe it wasn’t you. It could be a byproduct of past relationships.

it's not you, he's just a pantywaist.

Probably something he learned from previous relationships. My last girlfriend nothing could be said without her turning it into an argument. Suspect drama was her love language. Thankfully current gf communicates like we're partners on the same team and it's amazing.

You probably did nothing. I had a boyfriend like that once. He was just a stupid man who agreed with everything I said because he had no backbone. I dumped him.

your boyfriend probably has PTSD from childhood trauma most likely at the hands of a female. you should probably but very gently talk to him about this, so he can seek some therapy, if you truly like the guy and want to help that's the best option.

This is the way. Looking at all the answers belittling the guy who has likely experienced deep trauma is disgusting. I hope the guy gets the help he needs to heal.