Forever alone, forever

By AloneAtPerkins - 14/06/2020 05:04

Today, I realized that I've only had 3 men show interest in me: A blind man, a drunk, and a guy so desperate, he's been trying for over 5 years of solid "No"s. I'm 21. FML
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Whatever you do, don't date someone just for the sake of having someone. That usually causes more trouble emotionally down the road. My friend recently did that and he's already in a world of trouble. Better to find someone you love later in life than settle now with someone you don't want. I daresay it hurts less to be alone forever than to be with the wrong person. There are tons of people your age with the same issue so you're not alone. You got this.

Don’t worry the right one will come along. Just be patient and trust yourself.

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Don’t worry the right one will come along. Just be patient and trust yourself.

Give the desperate one a try. Doesn't sound like you can be too choosy yourself.

you say that without knowing her or him.

I'm reading between the lines. A 21-year-old girl who can't get any male attention must be pretty awful.

And a dude who has been obsessed with someone for 5 is considerably worse.

They're probably on the same level of attractiveness and she overestimates herself. Lots of ugly people do that.

Okay and your issue with blind people is...?

I’m also wondering why it’s an issue that he’s blind.

I think the implication was that they can’t see what op looks like. To me the post insinuates that op feels that they are so unattractive that no one is physically attracted to them.

There's also nothing at all wrong with not wanting to date someone with a major disability. These things do have a significant impact on your life if you end up living with said person, and it's perfectly okay not to want to take that on.

Whatever you do, don't date someone just for the sake of having someone. That usually causes more trouble emotionally down the road. My friend recently did that and he's already in a world of trouble. Better to find someone you love later in life than settle now with someone you don't want. I daresay it hurts less to be alone forever than to be with the wrong person. There are tons of people your age with the same issue so you're not alone. You got this.

Having more than one good choice is superfluous anyway. Was there an actual issue with the blind guy and the desperate guy, or do you just want to reject men so you can feel better about yourself?

Going out on a limb here, try eating less sugar and going for runs.

I can understand turning down a drunk, but why not have a date with the others?

so what's so awful about the guy that's been asking you out for five years that your desperate ass keeps saying no or are you just saying no so you can have someone begging for you 😂😂😂😂

Desperate people are the best partners!. They often try the hardest at making you happy.

Matthew Irmen 11

Here you are 21 acting desperate