Advice needed

By Anonymous - 27/04/2024 00:00 - United States

Today, I lost all hope of finding a man. I’m gonna be 34 and I can’t get a date to save my life. I was cursed with a facial deformity and 285lbs of weight, making all men run for the hills. All of my younger sisters have got married and started families. FML
I agree, your life sucks 473
You deserved it 247

Same thing different taste

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🫂 Have you considered getting involved with a facial impairment group or charity? Firstly, being able to just chill out and talk with people who actually understand will help your mental health no end. Helping your mental health and getting active in a group will help with either some weight loss or if it's medical, acceptance of yourself. Once you can get a bit happier about yourself and get a social group of people who have enough soul to know people aren't just skin deep, then who knows? You may even meet someone. But even if you don't, actual friends just make life easier. 🫂

Well, there is a LOT that you can do about your weight. That's 50% of the problem gone, so arguably it will increase your chanced of finding love by at least 30%. Who knows, maybe that's just the 30% that you need. Also, there is something really attractive about people who have gotten shit odds in life and have made the best of the situation. Or who have developed the character to rise above the situation. Do what you can, because luck happens when opportunity meets preparation.

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🫂 Have you considered getting involved with a facial impairment group or charity? Firstly, being able to just chill out and talk with people who actually understand will help your mental health no end. Helping your mental health and getting active in a group will help with either some weight loss or if it's medical, acceptance of yourself. Once you can get a bit happier about yourself and get a social group of people who have enough soul to know people aren't just skin deep, then who knows? You may even meet someone. But even if you don't, actual friends just make life easier. 🫂

Well, there is a LOT that you can do about your weight. That's 50% of the problem gone, so arguably it will increase your chanced of finding love by at least 30%. Who knows, maybe that's just the 30% that you need. Also, there is something really attractive about people who have gotten shit odds in life and have made the best of the situation. Or who have developed the character to rise above the situation. Do what you can, because luck happens when opportunity meets preparation.

Get online and/or look for support group's with people who have your condition. Have you tried going to see a surgeon and see if anything can be done with your deformity?? Get on line and look for clubs,

why do you feel that you need a relationship to feel validated?