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By Anonymous - 09/10/2019 16:00
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Sady_Ct
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So, even tho your sex drive is dead, you could try and entertain your partner. As long as you consent to this, you should be okay and you may find you get totally into it your self. I have been there with meds before so I know it’s hard. Either way you guys have to have an honest talk.
bullsonyourface
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don't feel awful, this is just one of those things...my doctor said the one pill I'm on, (sertraline if you're wondering, I probably spelled it wrong though) has success with sex drive if you give it time, ive been taking them for a few months now and definitely notice that I'm able to get horny more often than when I first started. TMI I know but I really hope this helps. also, your boyfriend is sweet because I know plenty of guys who wouldn't be able to keep their mouths shut and would be upset with you for not putting out. I think he genuinely understands and didn't want to add more pressure on you so he told a little white lie. just hang in there, shit will get better over time
bullsonyourface
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yeah but it's not like it's her fault she's not in the mood, obviously she's mentioned her lack of sex drive to her partner so I'm assuming not to make her feel bad he said he doesn't have a drive either while yeah maybe he shouldn't have lied about that I feel like it was harmless and he was just trying not to make her feel obligated to fuck him when she really wasnt up for it
bullsonyourface
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yeah but it's not like it's her fault she's not in the mood, obviously she's mentioned her lack of sex drive to her partner so I'm assuming not to make her feel bad he said he doesn't have a drive either while yeah maybe he shouldn't have lied about that I feel like it was harmless and he was just trying not to make her feel obligated to screw him when she really wasnt up for it
At least he's wanking and being supportive of your needs (or lack of) rather than pressuring you or going off and shagging around. Plenty of people here have suggested hand jobs etc. as a way around this and it could be a legit answer. Just because you're not in the mood for sex doesn't mean that bringing him pleasure won't make you feel good, hell it might even turn you on!
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don't feel awful, this is just one of those things...my doctor said the one pill I'm on, (sertraline if you're wondering, I probably spelled it wrong though) has success with sex drive if you give it time, ive been taking them for a few months now and definitely notice that I'm able to get horny more often than when I first started. TMI I know but I really hope this helps. also, your boyfriend is sweet because I know plenty of guys who wouldn't be able to keep their mouths shut and would be upset with you for not putting out. I think he genuinely understands and didn't want to add more pressure on you so he told a little white lie. just hang in there, shit will get better over time
At least he's wanking by himself, right? He's not getting any help, is he?