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Ummm, that's kind of fucked up. Do you still live with her? That's a major boundary issue. If you don't that's even worse. Don't let your mother make your reproductive choices, and if you're still at home, and in a country where it's culturally feasible, try and save up to move out, and put strict limits on your mother, because I assume that she's only going to get even more overbearing.

if you're living at home, it's long past time to get out. if she was in your home, time to put your foot down. that's not normal, or acceptable. and get new condoms, she probably poked holes

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Ummm, that's kind of fucked up. Do you still live with her? That's a major boundary issue. If you don't that's even worse. Don't let your mother make your reproductive choices, and if you're still at home, and in a country where it's culturally feasible, try and save up to move out, and put strict limits on your mother, because I assume that she's only going to get even more overbearing.

A bit of an extreme interpretation of "My house, my rules." You can either pop out a few grandchildren and get free daycare or pay rent. Seems like a no-brainer to me.

Even if she lives at her mom’s, she has a right to privacy and her mother has no say on her sexuality. That should be a no-brainer.

Don't live at home! If you are 28, time to move out!

if you're living at home, it's long past time to get out. if she was in your home, time to put your foot down. that's not normal, or acceptable. and get new condoms, she probably poked holes

The biological Grandmother clock is strong in this one...

If you have the means, you need to move out. Now. And maybe replace the condoms. If not, you need to draw lines in the sand and demand boundaries be respected.

as a woman who wants to be child free for the rest of my life.....wow... Holy fuck there's a lot to unpack here. time to gtfo.

gonna go out on a limb here. you live at home. you are atleast 8 years overdue being a responsible adult. if not, fyl but if im right you are bringing this shit on yourself.

Wow, talk about a violation of privacy. That said, if you still live with mom, it might be time to move out since she doesn't respect your boundaries.