Wise decision?

By Anonymous - 30/04/2022 00:01

Today, my girlfriend was given an ultimatum by her dad: come back to China and marry the man he picked for her, or stay here at uni with her 'white devil boyfriend' (me) and be shunned by her whole family forever. She chose here for her future career, but I think she resents me for it. FML
I agree, your life sucks 943
You deserved it 96

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If I were you, I’d end it. You know what will happen? You and her will just end up getting married, being miserable, having kids and end up getting a nasty divorce. She can have her career.

Girlfriend has got problems with her family. It’s not your fault, but don’t get in the middle of that. No matter which side you take she could wind up taking some of her frustrations out on you - So stay out of her family issue. But that does not mean breaking up with her, just be careful to stay out of that fight. Be glad that you are part of the reason she wants to stay here (but be aware there are other reasons too, like living and going to school here instead of China and eventually pursuing a career here instead of China.)

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If I were you, I’d end it. You know what will happen? You and her will just end up getting married, being miserable, having kids and end up getting a nasty divorce. She can have her career.

She'll get over it

You handsome white devil, you! You got one to come over to our side. 1.4 billion to go!

Girlfriend has got problems with her family. It’s not your fault, but don’t get in the middle of that. No matter which side you take she could wind up taking some of her frustrations out on you - So stay out of her family issue. But that does not mean breaking up with her, just be careful to stay out of that fight. Be glad that you are part of the reason she wants to stay here (but be aware there are other reasons too, like living and going to school here instead of China and eventually pursuing a career here instead of China.)