Do what I did, become Columbo and get to the root of rumours and stamp it out...

I'm sorry you had to go through this,I had my ex spread nasty rumors too,despite being him breaking up with me..I ended up burning bridges with all of those who looked at me in a different way afterwards,they didn't deserve my time. It hurts,it takes time,but it does make you a stronger and better person...you'll see!

Gave him herpes, hemorrhoids and halitosis.

Yeah I'm going through the same crap with my family at the moment. Hope things get better for you OP!

Obviously those "believers" are a waste of your time. Get some new friends and hopefully they will support you! :)

Spread shit about him

Don't tell us you ate all their red Starbursts, OP. You selfish candy-*****!

Man how do they expect you to own up to your own mistakes when they won't even tell you what they are?

What jerky friends you have there OP. if they won't tell you dump them, too (presuming you dumped your ex), but still let them go!

Your friends and ex are immature. If they were true friends they wouldn't ignore you and would believe you.