that's not family

There are so many questions! Your entire family hates you? What the hell?

Is there a reason?

I'm wondering if there's a reason for that.

I can relate! my dying grandmother had her last birthday yesterday. today she called me to tell me about how awesome it was and how mean I am for not going anyway

Sounds like you need to find out why they don't like you coming around and try to improve yourself.

that reminded me of the time my aunt forgot to pick up my other aunt (they're sisters) to go to their brother in law's funeral. ouch :(

As long as you are not being unkind, Families should accept each other’s personalities. They are being unkind for not inviting you or not telling you if there is an issue. I hope there is happiness ahead.

I mean if your whole entire family doesn’t like being around you, you either did something or someone in the family is telling lies about you. If you didn’t do anything I would figure out who’s talking shit lol