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  boating_guy  |  43

Well, due to my comment being mysteriously deleted... I agree with you 2. OP should nut up or shut up about it. If he wants to end it, be a fucking man and do it.

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  jazzy_123  |  43

I don't see how things could get that complicated either. So here's an idea for OP: Next time, don't let her say a single word. If you feel like you really want to break up with her, tie her to a chair, tape her mouth, and say what you have to say. Then comes the hard part, untie her and run for your life OP !

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  jazzy_123  |  43

27, I hadn't noticed it had posted already since the app was running slow on me 5 mins ago. I feel dumb now... I probably look desperate... sorry guys.

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  boating_guy  |  43

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By  asherm  |  22

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  Harpy20  |  22

Or she could be emotionally abusive and made him feel like his feelings didn't matter etc, etc. There are a few different ways this could happen that wouldn't be a ydi for OP.

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  MzZombicidal  |  22

I agree with #18. I was in an abusive relationship and when I tried to end it, he'd somehow flip it completely around and I'd panic and beg him not to end it. It was pretty fucking ridiculous, tbh. He had a way of making it seem like I /needed/ him. Took a while to summon the courage and actually end it and that turned into a dramatic scene. It also makes you feel pretty shitty to realize someone controlled you and walked all over you so simply. OP, if she really is emotionally abusive, you're going to have to stick to your guns and end it. For your own good. Good luck!

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  Axel5238  |  22

Agreed, been in that position before. She thought everything that went bad in the relationship was my fault and would never admit to doing anything wrong. I feel bad for the OP the gf probably guilt tripped into feeling responsible for everything wrong with the relationship and that things would work if only he did things differently.

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  Trish01  |  22

I too agree with #18. In fact I had come here specifically to suggest that it sounds like OP is in an emotionally abusive relationship. Been there and know how hard it can be to get out of such a situation. OP, be strong and get out! All the best.

By  The_Big_Boss  |  38

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By  cryssycakesx3  |  38

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  ThatFancyPenn  |  38

Well let me tell you something, bro. Sometimes you get lost in the moment and can't really tell what's happening and even if you had balls they wouldn't show... it's like having an alter ego. bro

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