By Anonymous - 10/12/2013 23:38 - Bangladesh
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Just get it over with already. Seriously, you sound like a character from a bad sitcom.
I don't see how things could get that complicated either. So here's an idea for OP: Next time, don't let her say a single word. If you feel like you really want to break up with her, tie her to a chair, tape her mouth, and say what you have to say. Then comes the hard part, untie her and run for your life OP !
Actually that was a typo. My phone slipped and I managed to apparently hit a "u" then validate, not start out my sentence telling OP nut the fuck up and be damn man. Alternatively, you caught me. My life revolves around FML and I must now admit my top priority is getting the first comment on FML, so that all the rewards and untold riches that come with it can be mine. Mwahahahaha. ...But I did do that once when I was 16, before I ever got my first, first comment. I won't lie. After that, I did grow up
I agree with #18. I was in an abusive relationship and when I tried to end it, he'd somehow flip it completely around and I'd panic and beg him not to end it. It was pretty fucking ridiculous, tbh. He had a way of making it seem like I /needed/ him. Took a while to summon the courage and actually end it and that turned into a dramatic scene. It also makes you feel pretty shitty to realize someone controlled you and walked all over you so simply. OP, if she really is emotionally abusive, you're going to have to stick to your guns and end it. For your own good. Good luck!
Agreed, been in that position before. She thought everything that went bad in the relationship was my fault and would never admit to doing anything wrong. I feel bad for the OP the gf probably guilt tripped into feeling responsible for everything wrong with the relationship and that things would work if only he did things differently.