Con: It's just a receipt for testing - not a clear result. She might have chlamydia Pro: Chlamidia is curable, and at least she knows she ought to get tested.

It's a good thing she hasn't men are whores now a days they fuck anything that walks. She deserves to be treated better, nothing wrong with her not having sex for two years.

I wish I could find someone decent, myself

I don't condone cheating, but two years is a pretty long time. Assuming he's been repeatedly shut down for sex in those two years, I'm not necessarily surprised he was desperate enough to cheat. A better man would have addressed it with her, but still, two years?

Not sure if being sarcastic or not, but husband could have been refusing her for the past two years. It definitely happens more than you think.

Unless she tries to initiate sex and he refuses? Not always the womans fault if they aren't having sex.

Even IF she denied the dude, he still should go through the proper channels of divorce instead of being a shitbag.

Contrary to popular belief, women DO want sex and men DO refuse it. It isn't always a dead bedroom because of the wife.

Or maybe she wanted to have sex with him and he refused. From the wording, that's entirely possible.

Cheaters dont deserve second chances