Oh man OP I can't even fathom how that must feel. So sorry! Idk how long you've been married but better to know now than to let the marriage continue for several years with a big lie like that. Hang in there.

So your husband is gay, at least he isn’t a scientologist.

he could be bi but regardless he cheated.. either talk, councillor, or divorce. I'm so sorry OP

Not to excuse what he did, but... bisexuality is a thing, you guys?

I know you’re upset, but whatever you do, don’t call him a “fudge packer.”

“First gay experience”? Wow, that’s such a positive spin on cheating! Maybe others could try “I had my first extramarital experience” if they aren’t gay.

This reeks of hypocrisy. Divorce and get everything.

What an ass! Not fair to try and make you feel bad when he's done something bad himself!

dont worry, my ex accused me all the time of cheating but played stupid when I came home and his mouth smelt like a condom!

Welp, at least you know where he wants it