By Fabio - 29/07/2016 00:13 - Malta - Piet?

Today, my girlfriend started insulting me on Facebook. Angry and hurt, I let it all out and insulted her back with her obesity. Turns out it was her brother who used her account to play a "prank" on me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 8 983
You deserved it 19 994

Same thing different taste

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ShortieRose 30

Why wouldn't you start off with a call to said girlfriend and say " hey babe, what's up with the public insults?" instead of ripping into her?!?! She's likely going to be pissed at you... if not possibly break up with you!!!!

If you had a problem with your girlfriend's obesity in the first place, then you should have never began dating her if you knew you would never be fully satisfied with a bigger woman. Why go out and become a bully, forever having her wonder if you think she is fat or not for the rest of this relationship?

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Personally OP, It would of been far easier to call your girlfiend? Airing your dirty laundry in public, over Facebook is just not how you do it. Lesson learn't I hope.

To add to it on reflection, Personally attacking her weight is also totally unacceptable. You're mean't to love her, Not attack her insecurities.

I know if anyone I dated did that to me, I would be too broken inside. It's one thing to have a stranger pick on you for being fat. It's another thing to have someone who called you beautiful/you loved them turn around and pick on your weight. That kind of damage doesn't go away. Now she will always wonder am I too fat to be loved? Does he really want me? Even if he calls her the most beautiful girl in the world, once you rag on someone about their weight they never forget it. It will make her feel like the whole time was a lie

I agree, but I am wondering if maybe the original post said something about OP's weight so OP retaliated by saying how that was unfair because of his gf's weight. That is pure speculation however, there is nothing to evidence that.

YDI for the cheap shot. Have fun being single.

Also, if someone close starts insulting you publicly for no reason whatsoever, my first assumption would be that it was a prank by someone they know. I would put trust and faith that my partner wouldn't be so immature. I wouldn't automatically assume the worst. I can understand why you would be angry and hurt, but you made a bad decision to use someone's looks to try and hurt them back.

It doesn't say it was publicly though, could have been a private fb message. Nonetheless attacking her back was a lame thing to do instead of addressing it in person.

Goblin182 26

YDI for being so juvenile. Its sad that people think its acceptable social media to have their arguments. That's like having a knock down, drag out screaming match in the middle of Wal-Mart.

Honestly, it sucks, but it's kind of on you.... You should have picked up your phone and called her, demanding to know what was going on before you roasted her online for everyone to see...

Ydi , and ydi if she breaks up with you

That shit is why social media is bad!!!

NO! Please feel bad. Feel horribly, terribly bad. I hope she ended the relationship. That is unforgivable!

Izzop, int! Why you shouldn't "fight" with your gf on FB, ta!

I could use a "see translation" option here.