OP said "my future husband" so she clearly did say yes

What the hell does gender have to do with owning a cat?! I'm a male cat owner so this comment is completely flawed

Nothing, gender has nothing to do with owning a cat. If the type of pet ownership is how you determine masculinity, I think that says something about you, and it's nothing good. Comes off pretty insecure. "I can't have a cat, that's not manly enough," like wtf?

not a gender thing, no one should have cats. dogs are friendly and actually want your care. Cats are assholes who just want to use you and show no love. cats r gold diggers, dogs, that's real love.

Ok, I'm a dog person, I prefer them over cats, but really, it doesn't matter. People have different preferences, let them have whatever the hell kind of pet they want if it makes them happy. Also, cats do show love, it's just different from dogs because they're a different kind of animal. And I'd consider them the opposite of gold diggers considering they're fiercely independent.

Cats are misunderstood because dumbass dog owners think they can be treated the same way as a dog. Cats are actually closer to people than dogs are. Cats need personal space and they will give you warning signs before they do anything. Inexperienced people tend to not recognize these signs and think the cat randomly decided to attack them. How would you feel if some stranger came up and started rubbing your belly and talking with you like you're a baby? Dogs are friendly with just about anyone, cats on the other hand have a more one on one relationship with you. Don't blame a cat just because you lack the knowledge about them.

Wouldn't dogs be the gold diggers since they rely on their owners and beg?