Yikes that's rough, best of luck in the future. We don't all do things like this.

+1. There ARE still decent people in the world. I will rarely, if ever, continue communication with a serious ex, much less be friends with her. I don't understand why people think you can go from the feeling of being soulmates and in love to being platonic friends without those feelings coming back. They will, every time. Period.

At least you know now to move on but it sucks that u found out on ur bday

Can't trust hardly anybody these days.. You deserve better.

Well.. It's your 21st birthday. Drink the pain away ;)

perdiction right from experience me and my ex has to be friend cause we have a kid and yet I'm having feelings for hin yet again when two exs stays friend there a reason there and eventually get back together one reason I wouldn't allow them being friends or why I wont be friends with ex so things wont happen when in a relationship

I'm sorry. What?

52 I'm pregnant with my ex's kid whom I was with for a few years and who was my first love, first everything. And we're just friends. He's made it clear there will be nothing else in between us & I believe him. It doesn't happen to everyone. His mom & dad are the same way.

i agree

I wasn't saying that it happens to everyone but it does happen I made it clear me and my ex wouldn't but that change I falling in love with him all over agian

#77 Let's eat, grandma. Let's eat grandma. Punctuation saves lives :D

Tinker has not learned about run-on sentences. :(

Awh, that sucks OP. Now find another boyfriend and show him off to your ex.

Or cat fight his ex

Hey

leave him . it's clear he is not, and will not be over her any time soon .

I'm pretty sure that part of the FHL is that HE left her. She doesn't have the option of saving face by dumping him. She does have the option of burning anything and everything he left at her place though. Just saying, OP.

Second!!! Bring on the down votes

If it was at your birthday party... well he's a dick anyway

But aren't you supposed to invite only your friends to this kind of events? I'm sorry for you though...

Smh you deserve better!

Well it's better to find out now than, say, after he had put a ring on your finger or something. Onto the next one:)

never ever invite an ex to a wedding , and to a party now too I guess

At least you now know whether you can trust him or not.