Today, my boyfriend broke up with me, claiming moving in was a bad idea and he is the type who needs his privacy. It was his idea to move in, he had to convince me. Now we are stuck, under lease together for the next 6 months. FML
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Thanksgiving
Questions about your love life, a burnt turkey and the cousin who knows everything: Thanksgiving, a contact sport.
Same thing different taste
Afterthought
Today, my boyfriend admitted that he never thought we had a future together. He just wanted to move in together so he could get "cheaper rent for a while." FML
Confinement must be great
Today, my boyfriend and I broke up because he won’t stop inappropriately talking to other girls on social media. We live together and have 6 months left on our apartment lease. FML
Independence day
Today, my boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he wanted some independence. He moved back into his parents' house. FML
Cost of living crisis
Today, my boyfriend of eleven months broke up with me, but adamantly insisted I didn't move out of our apartment, because he can't pay the rent alone. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me because he is moving. He's only moving 20 minutes away. FML
Today, I went to my boyfriend's apartment to break up with him since he's always busy, and I haven't seen or spoke to him in almost 2 months. I arrived to find out from his landlord that he'd moved out 3 weeks ago, leaving a note saying that we were over. FML
Dream house
Today, my wife wanted more space, so we moved to a new house. I signed a more expensive one-year lease and went through a huge move. Everything would’ve been fine if she hadn’t broken up with me one month later. Now I’m trying to renegotiate the lease and sleeping on the couch. FML
Today, my boyfriend of 8 years moved in with two other women. He's spent the past 2 years telling me he can't afford to move out of his parent's house. FML
Bad sign
Today, my 24 year-old boyfriend said that he wanted to move out of our apartment, but also stay in a relationship. He's moving back in with his parents, over two hours away. FML.
Time to move on
Today, my boyfriend of 4 years, whom I just signed a year lease, broke up with me, exactly a week after my best friend's funeral in my last year of college. I can't afford to live in our apartment alone. I'm going to have to drop out and move in with my sister states away. FML
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CallMeHush 1
Draw a line up the middle and take one side.
olivejuice001 0
If one of you wants to stay wherever you are living and the other agrees to move out, you can usually have the lease rewritten under the name of the one staying. Did that when I realized my now ex-fiance was a waste of time and energy. He moved out, I kept the place. (This works best when he's done something incredibly stupid that you can hold over his head to motivate him to get lost.)
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Comments (108)
rockediny 0
that sucks
BboyHero 0
lol let him pay the rent and move
MindlessRobot 0
I agree.
Horney4her69 0
better to find out now rather than after you're married.
furb82 0
that's what you get for shacking up... hopefully you have learned your lesson
omgitzjoe 0
haha
hockeyhouse 5
If her name is on the lease, she's liable if he doesn't make rent or damages anything.
martial42 0
=
natedog193 0
thats gonna be an awkward 6 months then
catriona_cd 0
why not just have herself taken off the lease. last time that happened to me i just walked into the estate agent and said i moved out and take me off the lease. was done in about 30 min. if your partener or the ex is still there they cant keep you on the lease surely
YayAmerica 0
Don't do shit you don't want to do.
alexFYL 11
#46 "for shacking up" seriously? It would be the same after marriage except larger repercussions.
Eddie_Paints 0
Someone has commitment issues!
CallMeHush 1
Draw a line up the middle and take one side.
UsaTrackstar 0
I'm gay
idkweird 0
That sucks. If it were me, I'd get a roommate and kick him out. No reason to be stuck living with someone unless you want to.
spoo 24
this is true. living together past this point means one of you will be driven insane with whom the other brings home.
infiniti_G 0
fourth
geordieboysgirl 0
Don't be shocked if next week he changes his mind again.
spoo 24
If you draw a line down the middle, make sure you get the half with the bathroom. Oh and put alarms and bells on it. Sarcasm and humor are great for stress relief :)
o0XMzMayX0o 0
#7 I agree!! so he learns to stick with his choices and war kind of privacy does he want?? hopefully nit to cheat on u!
olivejuice001 0
If one of you wants to stay wherever you are living and the other agrees to move out, you can usually have the lease rewritten under the name of the one staying. Did that when I realized my now ex-fiance was a waste of time and energy. He moved out, I kept the place. (This works best when he's done something incredibly stupid that you can hold over his head to motivate him to get lost.)
Anonymiz 4
olivejuice001 is absolutely right. Most landlords would rather rewrite a lease than have potentially volatile tenants. It's usually less hassle from his/her perspective to lose one of you than to lose both of you. Have a chat with your ex about whether he wants to keep the apartment or if he'd rather leave and let you keep it (if either of you can afford it alone). In any case, make sure that the remaining person has all the keys to the place or future FMLs are inevitable.
AntiChrist7 0
Don't date morons who don't know what they want. YDI
saranottelling 7
I hope you're in one of those annoying relationships where you break up for two days then get back together, only to break up again the next week.