seems like a win for you, all in all.

You should have broken up with him not the other way around

Well depending on Where this is, turning off one's phone in another country unless you're using Wifi and using a message App or Skype or something even with the phone on they'd have to go into airplane mode because either there will be no signal anyways, or it will cost an arm and a leg when you get back for using it.

Lock him out for the rest of the vacation

Wouldn't bother w/ him. Sounds like a douche canoe! You're not losing anything trust me!

He either realized he didn't wanna be with you and he did that as an f you. Or he was hooking up with someone and dumped you afterwards. Either way, he seems petty with no respect, I wouldn't want someone like that in my life. You're better off tbh.

Hello! This is the OP. My ex is Korean, and I'm American. I live in Korea due to work. My ex suggested that we go on a trip together (3-4 hours from where I live in Kore). I agreed and booked the Airbnb for us. He arrived Friday morning, and I arrived Friday night. Which is why he had the only key before I got there. He locked me out because he went DRINKING with friends the same time I arrived and "forgot" about me. Mind you, coming here was HIS idea and we had texted that very day. I asked why his phone had been off, and he sighed, "I don't know..." It made no sense to me. The Airbnb host, despite being abroad at the time, helped me find another place close by. I stayed there for the night. So of course, I was furious and did not want to see my ex. Because I had miraculously found another place to sleep and everything had "worked out", my ex was confused as to why I was so angry at him. Me being angry means I want space and don't want to talk. I didn't even yell at him! His spoiled ass didn't like this silent treatment (it was our first real fight ever), so he said, "If you're going to be mad at me, I won't see you ever again." I was pissed and didn't care for his threats, so I said, "Fine. Bye." He went to his hometown, and I had a ruined weekend by myself.

Uh, sweetie, you should have broken up with him, then.

I would have dumped him before that. Turning off his phone so he could go out drinking with his friends when he KNEW you were coming (and that you had paid for it, no less) is INCREDIBLY selfish. What a douchebag.

Now dump all of his stuff outside and lock him out of the airbnb you paid for in a foreign country :)

Maybe it's not such a bad thing that you're no longer seeing a guy who would turn off his phone and lock you out of the Airbnb you paid for. That said, if you paid for it, you should have had the keys. I wonder if did that because he was cheating on you. Again, you're well rid of that jerk. If you can cancel his airline ticket and get a refund, you should do so.

WIN