By dessy - 09/05/2016 21:37 - United States - San Diego
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Using money as an abuse tactic is a thing (withholding money/stealing/threatening to take their money etc) however we have nowhere near enough information to know if this is a regular thing or he was just being a bit of a dick that one time. Just dumping a relationship without even discussing it and finding out why he acted the way he did sounds really extreme.
Every time a comment says, "that's an abuser" there's always a horde of flying monkeys chittering "so extreme! you don't know him!" etc. Come on people, do you really not get how this works? Of COURSE we don't know him. But IF this person is being abused she may need others to point it out because abusers will fuck with their victim's mind. If he's just a good guy having a bad day, she's probably capable of figuring that out on her own -- no harm done.
Tell him that the next time he wants something, he can do it himself with his own money.
Isn't this the plot of a spongebob episode? "Yer spending all me hard earned cash!"