Sounds like OP is dating a man-child to me.

You should reproduce with him then write another FML a couple of years later.

How about no reproducing with the full fledged man-child. That just encourages it.

Exactly.

I was being sarcastic. How many FMLs have we read of women who choose to reproduce with these man childs then complain how they are terrible husbands and fathers. You can still cut him loose OP.

Yeah this is one of those times when OP should break up with him. He's stealing, lying, and doesn't understand what's wrong. Those are big red flags.

Not even just a normal red flag. These are like flares being shot up in the night sky.

Yea, I think this is one of the times where "break up with him" is the best solution. Talking it out with the boyfriend won't help at all because you're trying to change his entitled attitude. Cut your losses and get out of there.

Why would anyone try to work it out with someone who stole from them?

I see no reason not to, if they both still have feelings for each other, and the man is willing to comprimise, they can still be happy being in each others company.

Worst. Advice. EVER.

Happy with someone who stole from you? He has no respect for her as a person, for her work, and clearly has no issue lying to her and using her. None of these are qualities you want in a mate. OP, run. Run far far away.

@102 - exactly! I just went through something similar as the OP and just gave her the boot. No matter how much you try to work things out or help them out, they won't ever respect you or contribute. OP is better off without him

Why your comment has been down voted is beyond me! I guess the truth hurts.

1. Grammar 2: Outdated concept of man as needing to be the provider. Just a guess.

That and his profile shows him to be a very weird dude with little understanding of how to communicate properly. Personally, my girlfriend is the breadwinner and couldn't be happier with our relationship. Just because society said the man has to be the provider doesn't mean that you can't have a successful union where the woman is the provider. The time I don't spend working I use to make her life easier...I can wake up everyday and focus my full attention on her and how to improve our lives. I'm also a successful professional internet marketer/gambler, but her executive position in a Fortune 250 corporation brings in more than enough and were happier than any couple I've ever met.

#71 props to you, but I wouldn't feel fulfilled as a man staying home while my partner works hard. I would feel the same if I were a woman though. I like to provide for my loved ones, aren't you afraid she will leave you for a working man/colleague? As their lives are way more similar and they can relate to eachother better.

So if my husband is going to be a stay-at-home dad when we have kids then he isn't a real man...?

The problem is his attitude he didn't ask for money he stole it lied and then threw a tantrum.

Agreed

What if OP's boyfriend also steals from his sister's kitchen?

I'd say he's a very resourceful man.