By Anonymous - 18/05/2012 19:19 - United States - Paterson
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101--really? Its common sense that the whole FML doesn't at all talk about how her boyfriend is stating she has small tits? ....are you that retarded? The whole thing IS about how her boyfriend is saying her tits ARE so small she could pass for a guy.... Where the fuck is your head at?
Tell him at least you don't look like a girl with a hairy chest, or something on those lines.
What the hell. Do me a favor and tell him that at least your breasts are bigger than his balls!
That would be an oversensitive reaction to teasing. He's dating her. Obviously he likes her the way she is. By the way, I have very large breasts and everyone thinks it's okay to tease me about them all the time. I hear jokes about having "built-in airbags", having my own floatation devices, needing bras engineered by NASA, etc. Very few people (even straight women) make eye contact with me during conversations. When people describe me, they just hold their hands in front of their chest. Why is that okay, but comments about small boobs aren't?
109) Because you actually have something to talk about? Large, small, or in between, unless the possessor of said breasts is ok with it, it's rather insensitive to make references of a ladies breasts. I talk about and tease my fiancee's boobies all the time, with her. If she didn't like it, I wouldn't do it. And I certainly don't with anyone else But then again, I've already determined that my values are a bit different and a little old-school. Damn my parents for teaching me respect.
129- Who says I'm comfortable with it? I'm a little self-conscious about my chest. Especially because that's all people notice about me. No one ever describes me as 5'6" with dark blonde hair and blue/green eyes. They always remark about my boobs. But people assume I should be okay with it because "everyone likes big boobs". No matter what it is about your body, if people tease you all the time you start to feel weird about it.
I get what you mean in a way with that any comment about someones appearance is awkward and unnecesary... but youve got to be kidding me if you think that an offensive comment implying a girls boobs could pass for a guys, and an offensive comment making jokes about how big a girls boobs are, are in any way on the same level of offensiveness....... more like youre fishing for some weird kind of self esteem boost or something... Everyone jokes around and might slip up and make a rude comment...but to joke about a partners body whether its about tiny tits or a bit of tummy or thigh fat....especially in public....pretty f'in sad! I would say insulting your partners body is only fine on the conditions... 1. youve been together ages and are comfy and know each other well.... 2. you love and appreciate and compliment the other persons body....they know they are loved.... 3. you're both jokey people that joke about all these 'taboo' subjects IMO, there are too many d'heads and b*tches out there anyway...not saying OP should dump the guy straight away but why waste your time with someone who'd be so rude?? If my BF ever puts me down its in a joking way for something I did...nothing appearance wise and I get compliments from him all the time...thats the way I reckon a partner should be!
I wasn't fishing for anything. I'm stating a fact. Everyone thinks it's horrible to comment on small boobs, but fine to completely focus on big ones. And let me just say, for the record: Everybody says something insensitive/rude to people they care about sometime in their life. He must like her since he's dating her. Her boobs may not even be that small, just small enough to get teased about being less than average. He most likely meant it as a harmless joke and didn't understand how upsetting it would be to her.
How does the size of a girl's boobs impact on how she will be in a relationship? I'm probably going to get large breasts because my mother does, and that's just that. My friend doesn't have large breasts and probably won't because it doesn't run in her family. Does it mean that either of us would be better suited to be in a relationship? Okay, I have now ranted :)
Ozzy Osbourne said it perfectly in Austin powers; "BOOBS!" I agree with Perdix, a girls (pardon the callousness but it's for lack of a better description) boobs, have little to no impact on her personality. I've met just as many flat chested bitches as I have DD bitches. It's all in the head, her head not the guy's. Quit thinking that way :P