By Anonymous - 11/06/2013 15:20 - United States - Seattle
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Ouch! That must really suck. You should reconsider your relationship. I don't think the mom would ever get over the fact that you look like her husbands mistress :/
I don't know why this is thumb'd down. Sure its irrational to hold her accountable for her sisters actions but its what is likely to happen. The mom will never trust her and always bad mouth her because her husband is an ass. If the resemblance is close enough she will always see her as a reminder of her unfaithful husband. Unfair and unlikely to get better.
This is what I thought. Not all partners have their families become one big happy group, but you seem to be off to the worst possible start. I think I'd reconsider this relationship. You probably weren't with him that long, so better you make an informed decision before you get more involved.