By csor027 - United States
Today, I was having a good talk with a coworker and I was excited that I've made my first friend at work. After sharing some stories and some laughs he asked if I had a boyfriend. I said I do. He asked if I was always faithful, I said I was. He then walked away. FML
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  DjeePee  |  24

OC, he's a jerk for wanting sex with a woman, knowing that she is in a committed relationship. If he had a little respect for her, and her boyfriend, he would have stopped asking her out. But no, he goes a little further, seeing if she's willing to cheat. That makes him an incredible 'I don't give a shit about other people' jerk, and I have no compassion for him.

But you're right that he isn't a jerk for not wanting to become friends with her.

  Krajjan  |  9

YDI for expecting more from humanity than shallow narcissism. The time has come to grow up, realize we suck, and develop some healthy cynicism. It's inevitable.

  DjeePee  |  24

What's going on in her relationship IS his problem, for god's sake, he's the one who wants to hook up with her. If she had an open relationship, fine, problem solved, but she hasn't, and he should respect that. But he didn't. So, he's a jerk.

I read in my life way too much comments of people who wanted to or did have sex with a non-available person, making hem/her a cheater, and I'm sick of it. It's just a matter of maturity. And respect, for the partner, for the one you want to do, and even for yourself.


The guy was interested in OP, asked her questions to determine OP's standing as a possible hookup, realized she was not available, and left. I don't understand why people are saying he was being a jerk. How was he to know that OP was in a relationship or what kind of relationship she was in without asking? Organisedchaos is spot on in this situation.

  DjeePee  |  24

The question "Are you faithfull?" is one from a jerk.
The question "Are you in an open relationship?" is one from a (more) decent person.

There is nothing wrong with asking, but it is the way he did it.


I pray he is just a jerk like number 1 says I had a crazy girl basically do the same to me at work once but instead of walking away waited for my girlfriend to come to the store to meet up before we went to a movie (expendables ftw) and tried to break us up because my gf " had her turn."

  T_Shadows  |  0

chaos ur reply was kind of useless because for 1) my mother is more classy than u can understand. 2) my reply was well thought out, it's just that my other possiable replies were just to smart for your small brain to process. (don't reply to this ur to much of a waste of time)

  Loofah_fml  |  1

Oh yes Chaos, your "small brain" doesn't understand what Shadow said because you are so dumb. Although in my opinion, you probaly didn't understand because 1) Shadow isn't making any sense & 2) He spells like a first grader.
It's hilarious that the minute someone comes up with a decent comment, some asshole decides to critizise it because it doesn't say, " Dam Op ur a skank. u deserve it for breathing"
Leave Chaos alone, he obviously understands the situation much better than you ever will.

  SarahBearXoX  |  0

She shouldn't have punched him, he was just curious. Maybe it was horrible for him to do that but the op didn't know him that well so she can just move on.

OC, this girl isn't a frigid bitch, she just thinks the guy is an ass for checking how faithful she was, which is ok. You don't know her, take a step back.

  sugarr0babby0  |  0

Whoah, 35, calm. okay ? Obviously you don't get a joke, and thankyou everyonee else for agreeing with me.
And 35, how exactly am I a bitch? Sheeeesh, people these days..

  DXB3  |  0

well he really was trying so that's why it's kinda an fml cause OP didn't have any friends at work and she lost her first and probably only friend.

By  anquilla  |  2

you did nothing wrong, why would you want to lose your bf over some loser like that anyway? Maybe it was his way of finding out what sort of person you are on the inside. Id say you gained his respect .