Well even though Ops timing sucked, lots of other daughters would usually stay immature, show more attitude or give the silent treatment. Don't be so hard on yourself Op, At least you aren't a shitty person.

The last time I heard this I fell off my dinosaur.... so like this morning.

I bet OP's relationship with her mom is now shattered.

or just the vase

I think the mom would rather have both. But a good mother--family member, friend--would rather have a person than an object.

The vase broke so the daughter is the only choice. dont let a vase come between you two.

Don't worry OP your mother's heart won't be shattered.

Give it a break guys. All OP wanted was piece and quiet.

Hopefully they can piece it back together

Hopefully, your relationship isn't completely smashed.

Come on guys, don't be so invasive with her life

it'll probably take many fragments of time to glue together their relationship again.

I don't know, I've seen some pretty nice vases.

If she's anything like my mom, it'll be in her will

Warranty? When she broke it herself? By knocking it over? Really...?

A warranty that covers being dumb and shattering it yourself? Really?

If she paid with a credit card, she may have the purchase protection which does cover accidental breakage. I've had to use it twice for my kids' phones.

You mean "she forgave you"

That's exactly what I was saying. Excess at it's best, I suppose.