Today, by helping my sweet, caring boyfriend get over his crippling insecurities and develop some confidence, I've turned him into a lying, cheating asshole I can't stand. FML
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Fall
Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, after I helped get my boyfriend get a new job, he thanked me by dumping me for some whore who works there. FML
Today, I caught my boyfriend trying to dispose of several empty alcohol bottles, leading to a discussion how dating me and putting up with my insanity has given him a drinking problem just so he can get through the day. Me catching him seemed to be the wake up call he needed, because he dumped me. FML
Today, my boyfriend sent me so many nice texts that he made me fall in love with him that little bit more. It turns out he was sweetening me up before telling me he cheated on me the night before. FML
Today, I broke up with my boyfriend. It isn’t acrimonious, no-one cheated, but his life will apparently “improve immeasurably” now, while mine will basically crash. I’ve spent the past 5 years working on improving as a person for him, and I thought I’d succeeded. FML
Today, I spent hours consoling my girlfriend for getting dumped by the guy she was cheating on me with. FML
Today, my boyfriend lied about having herpes, and used it as an excuse to dump me. FML
Today, my boyfriend told me that he becomes a boring version of himself whenever we are together. FML
Today, I was wrestling with my boyfriend, trying to prove to him that I was stronger. I did. He started crying. He then broke up with me because he couldn't be in a relationship in which his girlfriend was stronger than him. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me, because he didn't trust himself not to cheat on me. What? FML
Today, I spilled my guts out to my fiancé about some insecurities I've been having. I then turned to look at him through tears at his expressionless face as he texted someone. FML
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Top comments
AC98 19
There's a pretty simple solution to that problem. Dump the douchebag. If he was stupid enough to treat you like that after everything, then you deserve better.
UltimateBob 11
Leave him
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Comments (32)
KrazyKlownNinja 12
Story of my life. You always think their different. You let them know that everything is okay. Them BAM they are the opposite of what you thought they were. Sorry op you don't deserve that.
Scotth901 22
"Boy, bye!"
sparkledoge 29
I don't usually say that as i think it's always better to try and work things out but in this case it's pretty clear that leaving him is the best option.
waleedma 18
Comment moderated for rule-breaking.
Why women want to change their men!!!!!
garrettwood21 3
Honestly OP, don't try to change people. If he was ever going to get over his insecurities, it would've happened regardless. It's not wrong to feel alone and scared sometimes. Just be there for people, don't be them. YDI in my opinion.
GhostFox 34
It doesn't say ANYWHERE that OP is the one that brought up the idea of working in the BF's issues. It says that OP was HELPING him do so, meaning he's just as likely to have been the one to suggest the action.