This ^^^ You discovered what he would do.

YESSSSSS this was EXACTLY what i was gonna say, #16. My thoughts exactly.

lawyered.

I love how you insinuate every flaw she has is reflected in her appearance. As if pretty girls with no weight problems don't do this stupid shit all the time too. Great, be an asshole. Her weight is not the problem, whether or not she is fat has nothing to do with it. I hate people like you, who are so shallow and look obsessed you fail to realize the problem lies in her lying, selfish personality. No wonder she got dumped for being "fat"? That makes no sense if she had a boyfriend in the first place. The problem is that guys like you judge girls so much on their looks that they focus on that and never work on their personalities. Op, stop being an ignorant little bitch. You set yourself up. You used a fake personality that was obviously better so he dumped you. I would suggest looking through your messages with your boyfriend and see the qualities you pretended to have and try to immolate those. If the "girl" he left you for was a **** who promised to do him than work on your standards and figure out what you have been doing wrong. Testing someone you love is like they say "if you can't trust, how can you be trusted." I would have left you too.

"I would suggest looking through your messages with your boyfriend and see the qualities you pretended to have and try to immolate those." I'm guessing you meant to say "emulate" those qualities, because setting them on fire seems like the last thing she should do. That being said, OP, you had this coming. I have no clue why people like you seek drama, but this one backfired on you hard; you'd be hard-pressed to find sympathy from anyone on this one.

Except for "immolate," that was a great comment, Flutist.

you can judge a book by its cover, if a girl is fat, it shows she has lack of self control, maybe eats when she's depressed, a very immature way to handle a situation. It also shows she's lost any care about her self image which reflects a low self esteem. Don't tell me I cant judge a fat girl on being fat.

Or it shows that she has a medical condition or some other reason that is hard or impossible to control that's causing her to be overweight. Not everybody who is fat is fat of their own accord. And further more, some women who are overweight have no problem with their body image, and just like themselves the way they are, and more power to them. It's not nearly so simple as you seem to think. You sound like an ignorant twat, so you should probably refrain from sharing your opinions.

What about fat guys? I feel sorry for any girl that marries you, because it sounds like you'd divorce her as soon as she gained a couple of pounds because "she lacks self control."

I agree, being fat is a glaring character flaw.

Considering 99% (arbitrary statistic, but most likely close to the truth) of fat people in the US don't have a medical problem and are just lazy gluttons, that excuse doesn't really work, #57.

Or.... they are poor and they can not afford the healthier foods (well they could but it is always less expensive to eat less healthily than it is to eat healthily), slow metabolism, depression (oh wait.... depression and mental illness is a 'sign of weakness,' etc.) So no you can not judge someone by their cover. Like I could totally call you and your sympathizers arrogant uppity assholes.... but being fair I don't know you well enough to judge and I would feel like a complete and utter idiotic douche to stereotype and assume someones whole lifestyle and personality based on one characteristic or trait.

Ah, yeah, setting herself on fire would be a good thing as well. =) I think the problem is you have no basis to judge a fat person because you do not know their history. Their parents might be unhealthy eaters, they might have a sickness, they might be "comfort eaters" or they just might like being big. While it is not always the best choice, for health reasons, judging a persons whole character on their weight really does nothing to help that person. Calling the person fat and worthless just makes them want to eat more--I should know, I was born overweight and it took me most of my childhood to get it under control. People in my family just happen to have that wonderful gene that makes us gain weight faster. Yes being obese is not healthy. Or attractive in many cases. But unless you know the person, negative comments only make the problem worse. Saying, "I want you to be healthy and happy" is one thing, destroying someone because they aren't up to your standards is another. Over eating, like anorexia, can often be a disorder. It is often psychological. Depression, real chemical depression, often blocks out everything like restraint and happiness. Food brings endorphins and so the person eats and eats. Smokers, alcoholics, sex addicts all suffer from similar disorders. Addiction is addiction-- So until you get into super shape, have a perfect diet, and can positively tell someone, without calling them worthless, that they should lose weight, then you need to shut the **** up.

I like your picture. (totally unrelated with the FML)

lol you have to create the accounts for your friends?

they said "ive had a few create fake" blah blah blah.. as in .. I've had a few friends who created fake accounts on blah blah blah...... she didn't create them, but she's had several friends that have done it for themselves....

Except he didn't even go behind her back. It's not like he agreed to hook up with fake girl while still going out with real girl. He had the integrity to dump real girl before pursuing something else. Of course, dumping somebody he's met for someone he hasn't met in person doesn't strike me as being the most mature thing, but it could be that he was thinking of breaking up with her already (especially if she's done this sort of thing before) and a new girl interested in him was just one extra factor that helped him along.

OF COURSE he's faithful. He left the OP *BEFORE* he did anything with the fake girl.