By Is_This_Real - 13/09/2016 02:34 - United States - Pittsburgh

Today, I hooked up with a friend. I expressed an interest in it becoming something more. He expressed an interest in not telling anyone and pretending it never happened. FML
I agree, your life sucks 14 602
You deserved it 2 508

Same thing different taste

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TheEpicKitten 20

That really sucks, but if this was a legitimate mistake on his part you should probably let it go

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You got released from the Friend Zone, but after the sex, you got sent back?!? And to the Non-benefits-eligible region of the dreaded Zone! Brutal!

But OP was never released from anything. Hooking up with someone is not the same thing as starting a relationship. If it were, the term "friends with benefits" wouldn't exist. What happened to OP must have hurt pretty badly, but not nearly as much as it would if he had lied and just kept using her for sex. At least he told the truth.

The guy I lost my v-card to faked a panic attack and memory loss to "forget" that it happened. I still ******* hate him

Rightfully so. Did you at least get it published as an FML?

That's easier said than done... I don't think him acting like that will make anything less awkward in the future...

Did you express interest in it becoming something more only after hooking up? It sucks, but it sounds like he was just looking for a hook up and nothing more. If you wanted more from the beginning and thought that hooking up was the way to get it, YDI.

Aw man I'm sorry op, we've all been there. Doesn't feel too hot

Same thing happened to me a couple weeks ago. :/

That's why you should always hook up with strangers

Well tomorrow you can hook up with a different friend and see how things go

Should probably talk about things BEFORE having sex.