By schellbytheseashore - 21/02/2009 07:30 - United States

Today, during a text conversation with a girl I've been trying to get with, she complained about how crummy of a day she was having. I told her it couldn't be as bad as she thought, and she would probably get it over it soon. Then she told me she had found out her cousin had been murdered. FML
I agree, your life sucks 51 168
You deserved it 13 379

Same thing different taste

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Yeah. It's usually good to Find Out What's Going On before you try and console someone.

carriealana 0

I've got to agree with #2 and #3. If you're trying to get with her, don't tell her it can't be that bad! If she's upset, she thinks it's bad whether it is or not; and in this situation, it was pretty bad.

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at least ask her WHY she's having a shitty day before you negate her feelings as the prattling of a shallow bitch. honestly, i'd stop trying to get with her, you've lost already.

The proper phrase: Aw, what happened? She was looking to talk about it.

You need to be nice about everything.

bsaucedo 0

well wtf thats not ur fault, ur just tryna cheer her up .

xoxo_carween 0

eeeeeeeeek. "/ goodluck trying to make yourself feel un-crummier than her day was (:

Dumbass why did u try to make her feel better when u didn't know what the problem was? Next time ask her if she wants to talk about it... YDI... FHL

That is why you ask her what is wrong before you get to the comforting. You need to be on the same page as her to comfort her. It's not a YDI moment nor a FML moment. More like FHL.

get to the part where your life is ******, rather than this part where nobody gives a ****

ur life is effed, the cousins life is over! think about that...