By … - 28/06/2012 14:20 - United States
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You should tell her, though it may break her heart, she deserves to know.
63 - Easiest, not best. OP, you have to tell her. If he passed himself off as single, she can't blame you, it just shows you guys have similar taste! She might get mad, but she'll realize it wasn't your fault. Of course, there's a possibility you knew he had a girlfriend, and slept with him anyway because you didn't think you'd know her. In that case you're a b**ch and deserve to lose your best friend.
well for starters, they're best friends. most of the time, best friends know each other's boyfriends/girlfriends. I hate to say it, but I'm thinking OP just lost a friend. I expect the thumbs down, but here's my reasoning: I'm a girl. and we all know girls don't think clearly when they're upset or hurt. especially in cases like this... she's going to flip out. but another thing, since they're best friends, they probably have been thru a lot of stuff already. maybe they can work thru it; maybe not. my bet is going towards this is a friendship destroyer.
Well, if he did something egregious, you might want to let her know, otherwise, stay out of it.
62, I agree completely. This could quite possibly be an open relationship and therefore he did nothing wrong. I don't however understand why it being an open relationship negates the need to tell their friend...She doesn't know that they're in such a relationship, of course she needs to tell the girl.
Pfft...why would you have a one night stand with a douchebag? That's just a poor choice. Altho still a better choice than having a three month relationship with one...
Congrats. Completely wrong. I really couldn't care less if people have one night stands. Committed relationships aren't for everyone. I was just kind of thinking that if you have a one night stand with someone and he turns out to be an asshat you can't really complain since you didn't bother to find out before. But thanks for getting your panties in a twist over it :-)