Just a hint from an old married guy on marriage #3. Sometimes it’s less what you say than how you say it that upsets your partner. I know, it’s crazy that many people respond less to the content than the tone of what you say! But I’ve had to learn and re-learn that… Another hint, never take the bait of making a game or video of saying what you don’t like about your significant other. It’s as dangerous as “does this make my ass look big?” That’s not to say you cannot or should not tell your significant other how you really feel - You should but carefully and honestly; both the good and the bad. But moments that are intended to be filmed are fraught with potential relationship hazards because usually each side has their expectations about what the other is supposed to say and they may not be ready for honesty.

Retaliate by throwing her ass to the streets and never speaking to her ever again.

I'm guessing she was expecting for you to say something funny and cute, even though that's not the direction she went with.

Should have caught the clue that doing any TikTok challenge is a sign of immaturity in the first place...