The price is wrong

Now you have to pay me a $3 comment fee, which now brings your total up to $63.

Lucky for you I didn't have to use "I hope you mean EX-boyfriend" or "shitty situation," because each of those carries a $4 surcharge.

Shipping was $40 for a $4 cord?! Holy cow! Did you mean $40 cord? You can most likely try to contend the value of the item before paying (if it was $4 not $40). Contact the customs office you'd be sending your bill to and request a new inspection.