I usually get fucked in arguments, but not literally!

Hehehehe.... He got you......but hey that's what marriage is...being constantly seduced. Enjoy and now you know how to get some on demand.

Uhhh, it's not like this is gonna win the award for most manipulative abuse in the world, but this is definitely manipulation. Dude is washing out arguments by... Initiating sexual contact while you're upset? That's super concerning, and to me at least, super gross. Hopefully you're able to sit down and explain to him that this shit isn't cute and he is able to understand and stop.

Well maybe instead of arguing you should try collaborating.

you took fml literally lol