Yeah, you need therapy that is well above that of most therapists’ pay grade.

I’m so sorry to hear that. Have you ever sought out help for this? I doubt this was the only mental scar your mother left, so starting with regular therapy would be a safe bet, but there are also sex therapists out there who might be able to give you more specific, targeted psychotherapy to help with this particular issue. You don’t have to give up or go through this alone.

Thinking about your mom during sex? Freud would have a field day with that one.

I'm sorry this isn't helpful at all but why are people finding this funny?

as an alternative to therapy, try pegging