By Anonymous - 22/02/2021 00:30
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Things come up in relationships that need to be discussed. And it's not always a comfortable talk. So, if you don't bring it up, it's going to fester and grow. So, if you want to understabd,,in hopes it's something you can handle, then you need to just say, "I cane across your dido video and think we need to discuss it." But don't be accusatory. Or, you can break up with him...and you should tell him it's because you found his video and it made you uncomfortable. It's tough, but...communication is key
ask him, and keep your lives private, just a suggestion...this isn't a fml, this is you needing to have a discussion with him, then maybe counciling if you two would like to go through with it.
They do need to talk, but this may very well be an FML. For one, this could be for another person, which is cheating. If not, it's still a heavy issue if he ends up not liking women. Counseling can't "fix" someone's sexuality as we desire who we desire. It all depends on how the conversation goes, but OP might need to be prepared to let him go.
OOF, I feel ya. Years ago, I found a giant fist in the back of our closet with a bunch of women's clothing. Turns out he enjoyed wearing women's lingerie. I tried being supportive best I could. I left him two years later after he cheated on me. Best course of action though is to talk to him.