I think that you should really try and find a way of moving on from your current “interest”. You’re just wasting time on her. Try broaching the subject with her without outing yourself. She might be more modern than you thought. And that way, you get to keep a friend. I know muslims who straight up don’t care if your queer or not. As for your family, that’s a whole mountain of ****** up and Im sorry to say I don’t know how to resolve the situation that doesn’t result in you being without a family or a home (if you live with them).

I have a friend who's Muslim and I always thought she was straight. I recently learned she's also bi. I've known other people who are Muslim who are queer. You never know what someone's sexuality is unless she's made it clear that she's straight.

Just don't get circumcised for her.