Late afternoon drifting

By TheStingStings - 15/05/2025 11:00 - United Kingdom

Today, I had another phone call with my mother; she has rapid onset dementia, and never gets my name right anymore. Already terrible, but she consistently calls me by my abusive ex-partner’s name instead of my own, so I get double trauma. Obviously F her life, but also FML
I agree, your life sucks 584
You deserved it 100

Same thing different taste

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GoogieWithers 23

She genuinely doesn't mean it.

I feel you OP, my grandmother, whom I care for 24/7, has worsening dementia and has started calling me by her dead daughter's name, who is my dead mother. It's rough, but they don't mean it. Hang in there!

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GoogieWithers 23

She genuinely doesn't mean it.

I feel you OP, my grandmother, whom I care for 24/7, has worsening dementia and has started calling me by her dead daughter's name, who is my dead mother. It's rough, but they don't mean it. Hang in there!

Austin Cannon 5

None of this is fair. But your courage in sharing it? That’s a tiny act of rebellion against the silence. Keep breathing. Keep reaching out. 🌱